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Quote of the week:

“You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.”

— Jon Kabir Zinn


🌿 A Gentle Pause: A Note from Julius (10–23 Nov)

Dear readers, The Gentle Lighthouse will take a short travel break from 10 Nov to 23 Nov. The journey ahead isn’t just about new places; it’s about new perspectives. Expect December writings filled with reflections, chance encounters, and perhaps a few poetic sunsets from the road.

Even while away, remember that healing doesn’t stop when we pause as it often deepens in stillness.


What’s Lining Up This November

November brings two meaningful global observances that remind us of both resilience and innocence—qualities that deeply shape emotional recovery.


🌊World Tsunami Awareness Day – 5 November

When the earth shakes, survival depends on early awareness and collective calm. Emotional life works the same way: waves come, but preparedness saves us.

  1. Emotional Aftershocks: Coping with Depression After Natural Disasters
  2. The Power of Calm: How Grounding Techniques Help During Emotional “Tsunamis”
  3. Resilience and Rebuilding: Lessons from Disaster Recovery for Mental Healing

👧 World Children’s Day – 20 November

Children remind us of the part of us that still believes in tomorrow. Nurturing their mental health—and re-parenting our own inner child—creates hope that lasts.

  1. The Hidden Struggles of Childhood Depression and How Adults Can Help
  2. Reconnecting with Your Inner Child: Healing Adult Depression Through Play and Compassion
  3. Building Emotionally Safe Spaces: Why Listening to Children Prevents Future Mental Health Crises

📝 Open Call for Collaboration – Let’s Write for a Cause

If you’re an advocate, creator, HR leader, teacher, or simply someone who cares—
and want to shine light on mental health awareness through articles, reflections, or storytelling,
I’d love to help you craft it—for free.

As long as your mission aligns with mental wellness, I’m happy to contribute my writing to support your cause.
Let’s use words to start conversations, stir healing, and break the silence.

📬 Connect with me on LinkedIn or Facebook using the navigation buttons above.

Let’s build bridges—with ink and empathy.

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